Sunday, March 1, 2009

ST 2009-03-01 Grad trips still a must, but on a smaller budget?

Hhhmmmmpppphhh - this reminded me of my own final undergrad year.  Among some of us who were mugging away, there were many who were also booking for the post-exam holiday tours, some as long as 5 weeks in Europe.

I could only look on enviously as I did not have such means.  And not all my friends who did it were sponsored by parents - some had been saving for such a trip for years, from giving tuition, piano lessons and working during the holidays.  It's just that at that time, as a foreigner on student pass, I was not allowed to work.  The last semblance of an income I had was during my internship, and that was just enough for my transport and meals, and printing my FYP reports.

Incidentally, I also never knew there was such a thing as "grad trip" until the tour companies came round conducting fairs on campus.

Anyway, the day after my last paper, I had an entry test with a prospective employer, whose applicaiton form I filled in hurriedly the night before after coming home late from celebrating at a school friend's house.  I hadn't even gotten anyone to be my refereee, so I put "N/A" in those columns.  The week after was an interview with the company, and then almost four weeks of no news from them while I was busily scouring Classified Ads and sending out application letters by the dozens, blissfully unaware that the then recent postal rate revision meant many of my mails had insufficient postage.

As it happened, that first company must have had their acceptance of some candidates rejected, and they offered me, a second choice candidate, an opening to report for work on 27 May 1993.  (Serve them right too, the company rejected all applicants during the first round of recruitment drive in December, and that round had the best students applying!)   It gave me just about a week to make a quick visit to my grandmothers in Indonesia before starting work.

Well, finally, I thought, I would have the opportunity I'd always dreamed of to travel around the world.  My first job turns out to be with an airline with staff travel benefits/privileges.  At least, it gave me some consolation and something to look forward to when my pals who went on holidays came back with stories and photos of their trips.  This was in 1993 - before there was blogging, and internet was primarily in textual UI and only available through university computers or MNCs, even before there were cybercafes.

Well, as it turned out, not so fast, buster.

First, I also signed up to do postgrad courses which consumes almost all my annual leave.

Second, I also learned that the air-ticket is just a small part of the whole travel budget, especially for a novice traveller like me who did not want to join tour groups.

Third, my pals just weren't too keen to join me to jaunt off to distant destinations after we all started work - for those who had already gone, it's "been there, done that."  For the rest, they didn't have the advantage of working in an airline, needed more time to save for it or weren't ready to splurge.

Of course it would never be the same kind of fun as going with a big bunch of fellow schoolmates, but I'd still like to take that trip someday and travel around countryside of Europe.

6 comments:

  1. Huh? Grad trips? What's that? (sarcasm)

    I'll wait until I can travel on my own means and not the bank of mom and pop. Hopefully sooner rather than later.

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  2. While your sarcasm was noted, I'd like to take the opportunity to expound further on this.

    It's also a rites of passage thing, but on a clearly different scale from prom nights and graduation balls ...

    (Incidentally, most home-schooled students don't have prom nights or graduation balls. No offence to anyone meant.)

    I had a prom night for my JC, but my uni didn't have a graduation ball.

    Grad trip though, can also claim historical links to the Grand Tour (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grand_tour)

    Anyway - as someone who works in the travel industry, I would say to those thinking about the trip - by all means, please go and spend, my income might depend on it.

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  3. Ah, silly me, I forgot, we didn't call it Graduation Ball, it was called Convocation Ball, and I remember too I didn't attend.

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  4. Going soon but on a different airline...

    It was about the same during my time, many of my peers did go on overseas trip after graduation, if not exactly around the world then to a popular country like Australia or perhaps New Zealand. Most did in fact pay for the trip out of a combination of their own allowances, part-time work and other means.

    I went on an overseas trip as part of a combined school affair representing Singapore in Sweden/London during my secondary school years. My father paid for the heavily subsidized trip when I asked. It turned out to be quite an eye opener for me at the age of 16 to encounter an entirely different country, people and climate for nearly two weeks, and experiencing first hand the joy of travelling. Going there with my friends and schoolmates helped made the experience even more pleasurable.

    Something I observe time and time again, regardless of my experience on the trip it always felt great to be back in Singapore especially after an extended trip.

    My next trip will be quite some years later when I started working and as a business related trip. In between those years the idea of going on holiday never quite crossed my mind. I was too lazy to work part-time and no offer was forthcoming from my father. I doubt I would have accepted even if it came. My reasons were I think financial but I did not feel I was missing out. I am after all quite the nerd and happy in my world of books where in a sense I travel far and sometimes further afield.

    Right now my family is not doing well financially. My father recently spoke to me about some troubles he is having. Quite indirectly and never asking me outright as he is a proud man, but I understood. What this means is many of my plans for this year such as going to the US is not going to happen.

    I am (perhaps unfortunately) an optimist., I love travelling but I can go without it. I have enough hobbies and other activities that can fill what leisure time I have.
    A trip up to our northerly neighbour can be just as pleasurable with the right company and directions.

    In some ways (but not others) I am quite easily contented. I tend to make do with what I have. If there is something I really want, I found that working with determination will get me there. If somehow I don't succeed, well life goes on. No good reason to get upset, at least not for more than a few days. :-)

    So no big trip for me this year. Let's see about next. Maybe someday I will get to do that grad trip.

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  5. Two round-trip flights on our beloved SIA was enough to make me a fan for life. It may be more expensive but for any trips beyond ASEAN, I'm willing to fork out more $$$.

    In any case, I'd rather travel as a working adult with some spare cash than a poor student.

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  6. Being a student gets one a lot of discounts too, especially in Europe and America. So after you're enrolled, get a youth card or a student card.

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